Straight answers
Jul. 10th, 2005 10:12 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
lovefromgirlAdvice request, if y'all have a moment.
What is so amazing about straight sex that makes people want to do it over and over again?
The little sexual experience I've had hasn't exactly left me clamoring for more of the same. It's mostly been "Sit there whilst I diddle about" on his part and "Quit sucking my nipples and get down to business" on mine. (I have dead nipples, except during my period, when they feel like they're going to pop off.) Penetration by anything larger than a finger has no added effect to my orgasm. There really isn't much fun to be had inside my vagina, folks. It's shallow, it's kinda dry, and it's too tight. It can't really handle a 7" dildo without liberal lubrication and some persuasion, so what makes me think a penis will be any better? Even fingers tend to hurt, if only because the people attached to them expect me to be fine with something jabbed into my bits haphazardly.
I should point out that stimulating my clitoris sets me off like anything. My vibrator is my best friend; that and a finger up the arse (g-spot stimulation; those tissues are thin!) or the vagina will take care of my urges pretty nicely. And, mind you. A finger alone does absolutely nothing. I have to be pretty far gone first.
I guess kissing is all right sometimes. Mostly it's wet and slimy. Maybe that just means most of the people who've kissed me haven't done a great job of it. With one exception, I have never been turned on by a kiss, and he doesn't like women who aren't Salma Hayek, so I'm not getting any of THAT anytime soon. At least I've experienced a good kisser, so I know they have to exist. The rest... is it me or is it them?
Since at this point, the preference is tilting towards male company, what does that say about my romantic future? Am I just a jaded, kinky little thing who's already achieved her sexual pinnacle or somesuch, or is there really something better out there? I'd love to enjoy some kind of multi-person sex (one or more other people) but I don't see the point if I'm not getting off. I may as well stay home and not risk the STDs.
What is so amazing about straight sex that makes people want to do it over and over again?
The little sexual experience I've had hasn't exactly left me clamoring for more of the same. It's mostly been "Sit there whilst I diddle about" on his part and "Quit sucking my nipples and get down to business" on mine. (I have dead nipples, except during my period, when they feel like they're going to pop off.) Penetration by anything larger than a finger has no added effect to my orgasm. There really isn't much fun to be had inside my vagina, folks. It's shallow, it's kinda dry, and it's too tight. It can't really handle a 7" dildo without liberal lubrication and some persuasion, so what makes me think a penis will be any better? Even fingers tend to hurt, if only because the people attached to them expect me to be fine with something jabbed into my bits haphazardly.
I should point out that stimulating my clitoris sets me off like anything. My vibrator is my best friend; that and a finger up the arse (g-spot stimulation; those tissues are thin!) or the vagina will take care of my urges pretty nicely. And, mind you. A finger alone does absolutely nothing. I have to be pretty far gone first.
I guess kissing is all right sometimes. Mostly it's wet and slimy. Maybe that just means most of the people who've kissed me haven't done a great job of it. With one exception, I have never been turned on by a kiss, and he doesn't like women who aren't Salma Hayek, so I'm not getting any of THAT anytime soon. At least I've experienced a good kisser, so I know they have to exist. The rest... is it me or is it them?
Since at this point, the preference is tilting towards male company, what does that say about my romantic future? Am I just a jaded, kinky little thing who's already achieved her sexual pinnacle or somesuch, or is there really something better out there? I'd love to enjoy some kind of multi-person sex (one or more other people) but I don't see the point if I'm not getting off. I may as well stay home and not risk the STDs.